Ladies the pickings are allegedly slim, and there are fewer truly available men, emphasis on black, to go around. Why is this? I mean we…

Our resident relationship expert, Kevin Carr, was kind enough to give us a few tips for our dating game. Here’s a look at Kevin’s list of first date mistakes to avoid. No job interviews: “Where do you work?” “How much do you make?” “What are your future plans?” No one likes to be interrogated on […]

Women often find themselves dressing for mens’ pleasure and trying to make sure they capture their attention with their looks. However, it’s been proven…by men…that…

“I was once told that I should never sleep with a man I couldn’t see myself having kids with, so why don’t more women take this advice?”

It’s common knowledge that our non-verbal communication says a whole lot more than our verbal. But when you stay sitting pretty, have trouble sustaining a relationship, a look at the way you are presenting yourself verbally may be necessary. I’ve got it all, I have a great career, I’m attractive, intelligent, with a kind heart […]

I came across a friend’s status one day on Facebook that read something like this, “I was once told that I should never sleep with a man I couldn’t see myself having kids with, so why don’t more women take this advice?” The simple questions resulted in a sea of comments that I did not […]

Ladies the pickings are allegedly slim, and there are fewer truly available men, emphasis on black, to go around. Why is this? I mean we can pull out article after article on what’s wrong with the men and women of today, hold a 10 day conference and the rhetoric will remain the same: “These men […]

Our generation has picked an interesting time to enter  the wonderful world of dating. You have the seemingly effortless fairy-tale union of Bey & Jay-Z juxtaposed to women up on the Maury show struggling to figure out who impregnated them and when. I am 100% sure that most of us are leaning towards the fairy-tale […]

Communication in relationships, you either got it or you don’t. Does effective communication take work? Yes. Does open communication with your mate involve trial and error? Most definitely! Will you have to step out of your comfort zone on more than one occasion to achieve results…Yessss! I often have conversation with friends who feel ten […]

I’m working the other night at this jazz club in midtown New York, and I’m doing my usual small talk as the customers wait in line to get into the show. I come across a young couple that I know and ask, what brings them out? The girl responds with a huge smile on her […]

This morning on my usual train ride into work, while attempting to read a magazine, I was distracted by the guys in front of me, deep in an intense debate about the best pick up lines they have tried, and how they they are all ‘foolproof’. Apparently, the ladies love ’em. Hmmmm…really? I don’t think […]